Ordinary things excite me: birds, bugs, wildlife, even trees. I find the ordinary extraordinary. It makes life less dull this way. Less a reason to escape and more the reason to connect with my immediate surroundings.
When I slow myself, I notice:
- The kitten-like displays of young squirrels
- The collective determination of ants on parade through the soil
- The way sunlight trickles down from the sky through the leaves to the ground
Ordinary, Extraordinary Everyday Wonders
The Hummingbird
Each evening around the same time a hummingbird zips through our backyard, dips its long, curved bill into various flowers, and journeys on to the next yard. Because of the speed at which they flap their wings (50 to 80 times per second), the hummingbird is able to hover in mid-air and even fly backward — the only creature with this capability.
When something fascinates me, I want to learn more about it — not for the sake of knowledge. Curiosity is what calls me. Is there a more amazing creature than a hummingbird?
Picasso once said that it took him four years to paint like Raphael, but a lifetime to paint like a child. It could be theorized that losing our childlike vision is a natural part of growing up. But is this correct or is it cultural rhetoric engrained in us by the ruling class? And is this perspective, one of freshness and curiosity, not worth holding onto?
Consider what steals your attention the most each day. Is it man-made or made by the hands of God and a naturally occurring part of your environment? Is it stress relieving or stress inducing?
The Less than Ordinary Little Brown Bat
It may be easier to find beauty in a hummingbird, but what about bats? Think about what a bat is. They aren’t birds. They are a flying mammal. Miniature puppy dogs that weigh two or three mere ounces with leathery wings.
“And she was always cold toward bats, too, and could not bear them; and yet I think a bat is as friendly a bird as there is.”
Mark Twain
When we moved into our home, a little brown bat occupied our attic. He still does — at least I like to think it’s the same little guy. While the little brown bat has an average lifespan of six and a half years, they can live up to 34 years in the wild.
He sleeps on the outer screen vent of our home and not inside. Granted, as I sit here and write this on my back patio, he’s doing his intoxicated like maneuvering in the canopy of trees above me, gobbling up insects faster than I can type words on the screen. Three crows nearby study his movements.
In 2008, the little brown bat had the lowest conservation priority: least concern. Since that time, winter hibernating populations have declined by an average of 90% due to a fungus-caused disease known as white-nose syndrome.
Despite this sudden decline, this particular bat species is not yet protected under federal law (though it is under review). The Commonwealth of Virginia took its own measures placing the little brown bat on our endangered species list. Connecticut, Maine, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Pennsylvania, and Vermont followed suit.
One little brown bat can eat 600-1,200 mosquitoes an hour, according to the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service. Happy hunting, I say. My backyard is a mosquito haven. All you can eat. Buffet’s on me, fellas.
Don’t Overlook the Simple Wonders Surrounding You
It’s good to get away every now and again and take a vacation. My family and I just returned from one and had a great time. But I don’t need to wait 365 days or travel hundreds of miles to be amazed. Amazement is fluttering about in my backyard every day of the year — yours, too.
The Transcendentalist poet Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air. It is not the length of life, but the depth.”
We live in a distracted world. Endless distractions that steal our time are everywhere, including at our fingertips. It could be said that distraction is our modern way of life. When we live this way, it’s easy to overlook the simple wonders that surround us daily:
- The male cardinal feeding his female companion as part of courting
- The often mistaken news bee come to bring the day’s news
But if we take a moment to pause and observe the seemingly mundane, therein lies appreciation: the extraordinary, ordinary everyday.
“My only duty,” writes American author John Updike, “is to describe reality as it has come to me, to give the mundane its beautiful due.”
8 replies on “The Extraordinary in the Ordinary”
Beautiful way to look at things. Thank you for writing this.
You’re welcome and thank you for reading. I appreciate it.
Great read! You always amaze me son!
I try my best 😉
Really been enjoying your essays lately man. Keep it up
Glad to hear it dm. After 25 years of blogging, I think I’m getting a hang of it finally 🙂
I so enjoyed your essay. I love hummingbirds, squirrels and deer. They are all so interesting to watch and learn from. Gwen I know you are so proud of your son! I am proud of you too Jeffrey…a “Phenix” boy making it big. Look forward to reading more. Thanks for sharing.
Very happy to hear you enjoyed reading it. You know, I almost threw a deer reference in this essay actually. We have a mama deer and her spotted fawns swing by our house daily. My wife even said, “You should include the deer.” Since I didn’t, I’m planning to incorporate them into a future piece.